A guy became a confidant on me of late. He came complaining of her girl friend. That she is not caring at all. He does so many things, he cares so much, ONLY he does. And by far such a relation can't grow much as only he cares, he told. It aint fair at all, he doing all good, and he being all good. As he claimed. I gave a smile. And completely disagreed. Orally and mentally. Just one thought went through "they are not in love". Or might be they are yet to understand what love is. But I did not utter it. Not everyone can understand this. People just so confine themselves in their own irrational thoughts that if you try to penetrate, you end up hurting yourself. I said lets assume you care a lot more than she does may be double than her. And he looked amused with my this assumption. I just gave him a small example. Example of water. Whats water? He went on, water is life as taught in primary school. Water is the reason of life on earth. Its the most important compound on earth. Its The most abundant compound also. And yet its the most precious compound.
I smiled giving a nod of acceptance. He said all the benefits he gets from it, and for him what it is is defined by what it can do for him. But naturally he is human. And this is human. He missed the most important part, what it is made up of? Its 2 part Oxygen and one part Hydrogen. Oxygen may be the most precious and important element. Its takes two parts of this most important and significant element and just one part of the other not so significant element to build the most precious compound. Oxygen never complains. :) But that way it builds water. Had it ever asked for even two parts of hydrogen it would be Hydrogen peroxide. Rather toxic which can kill. Just opposite as water, which can give life.
Everything that is great has a unique combinations of things. Appreciate it. Realize it. You love her because she is what she is. Appreciate it. A slight alteration can potentially convert this nectar into poison. Understand. Do not doubt things, keep the trust up. Its the foundation of love. Know the rare blend of your love story. Its unique. And just fall in love with that. It worths it.
P.S.:Read with attention and u can find the obvious flaw. :)
Truly
Abinash
3 comments:
very well done again! :-)
Sometimes its just the guy is in love but the girl isnt, yet she loves the attention so she is not willing to let it go. Girls can be like that sometimes. :-)
As per ur first sentence, it took me a while to get it. Dont you think it should be 'mine' instead of 'me" or to make things even simpler "became my confident"? :-)
Just saying...
Raaji: Hey long time. How r u?
Thanks for the comment. :)
No ma'am I meant "confidant" some one who confides in you. And hence it is. Oh certainly I have used a wrong preposition there it should have been confidant in me and not on me. :) Thanks for pointing out.
I make a lot of typos. Struggling to be meticulous, which m not. :P
Yes i read it with attention - its 2 parts of hydrogen n not oxygen :) but well written..I always believe that love is to give because that makes you feel happy.."If its meant for you, it will surely come to you"...
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